There is an old adage" what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger"and yet a void remains that cannot be filled. There are several things that I became aware of, " you can never go back, you never get the same opportunity twice and healing has nothing to do wit h forgetting."I feel very much like the rabbit in our animal kingdom and I have been picked apart by the hawk. It was something said in conversation " I leave myself open to be hurt
"My emotions are very very deep, disappointed, angered and hurt.I have reviewed choices like a broken bone that healed, it mends but a scar remains as a reminder.
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I feel the same. I haven't figured out what to do about it all yet. :(
ReplyDeleteI don't know , they say time heals and it will become a fond memory. Neither of those have happened...I think the answers lie in truth, we just don't want to acknowledge the truth. Thank you for stopping by a year later. I am so sorry I took so long to respond, sometimes I prefer to write on other blogs and remain positive.
DeleteAnger, emotional wounds, disappointment, I feel are the fuel of life. Are like negative, horrible blessings that push us to make changes in our lives. Changes that add depth and quality to our lives, provided luck is on our side.
ReplyDeleteA life in which there is only joy and no sorrow, such a life I believe would be impossible. But also meaningless.
The dance between light and shadow gives form and structure, and depth to the surroundings.
A room that has only light and no shadows would be an empty room.
Of course, this is not to suggest that one should go searching for hurt, but playing the devil's advocate is sometimes necessary.
A wonderful blog. Cheers!
Again I apologize for not responding. I write on many blogs , this one tends to be more of the negative emotions. I have tried desperately to move away from they . Hard to see through the lies, harder to understand. I realize that experience builds character both negative and positive.
DeleteI have put my energy into helping others, but as I feel a bit drained, I find myself reviewing , where I have been and wondering where I am going.
Thank you so much for responding.